Too much?

Dear anonymous,

It hit me really fast and really hard today that I want absolutely nothing to do with Ethan anymore. His name showed up on my Facebook news feed and the first thing that came to mind was that I don't want to see his name anywhere ever.

Maybe I have a tendency to do this. Throw people out of my life when they treat me badly or forget about me or toss me aside. Is it too much to do that though? If they don't care about me, is there a reason that I should care about them?

It's difficult. I want to delete him on Facebook and Twitter and in my phone and all that nonsense but he is still dating April. I still love her. To death. I don't really know what the protocol is.

Things like this just make me upset.

Love,
Michelle

Dating...again?

Dear anonymous,

I can't be sure if these guys are asking me out or if they just want to hang out as friends but I am starting to get confused. Do they realise that I'm really annoying and that I don't have a lot of friends because I am rude and judgmental and horrible? Even if it just as friends... do they not get that? Have I begun to come off as a genuine human being? Because if I'm being honest, I don't even really know who I am. And if I don't know then how are they to know?

Love,
Michelle

Dating?

Dear anonymous,

I don't believe in dating. Not really. I believe that people get together to fall apart. When it comes to Jeremy though, I would date. Maybe because he makes me want to talk, maybe because I could see us being together, maybe because he doesn't make me feel awkward, or maybe just because I think he is incredibly hot. Then again, maybe I want to date him because he makes me want to date.

Love,
Michelle